What's also important is that you determine if you're willing to help this person adjust. Every single person has their set of difficulties and "demons" that they are dealing with. This person, with AS, is not perfect. Honestly, neither are you. It may sound harsh, but the point of the post is to affirm that you need to determine if you can have patience with him and to accept his strengths and weaknesses.
If you can't accept them, then you shouldn't keep dating him.
On the flip side, and I doubt this is necessary to even say, but no one is perfect. Finding the perfect male will not happen, ever. No one is perfect.
Instead of asking us for tips, what you need to do is the following:
1. Determine if you want to work through these difficulties, if so then follow to #2, if not then drop the relationship.
2. Talk to him, upfront. Do not expect him to just "get it" when it comes to your needs. You need to be upfront, honest, and determined in your needs. Really, you need to state them. People with AS are more likely to miss your non-verbal hints. A common complaint of women seems to be that guys don't pick up on women needs...well, a male with AS is even less likely to pick up on the needs. So..go up to him, talk to him, be honest and direct and state your needs.
5 tips aren't necessary, be honest and patient...there, that's 2 tips that are better than 5 
Source: http://www.psychforums.com/asperger-syndrome/topic96995.html
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